The craziness of my life

Today has become more and more crazy.....My bff was involved in a domestic dispute today.....Her SO is on the run......he shot a hole in the floor of thier trailer house, tried to break into the school where her kids go to school at.....Why do men think that they have to do this........Years ago I was involved in that type of relationship and managed to break away.....My bff however seems to leave one abuser for another one who ends up being worse then the previous one.........All I can do is offer her an ear to bend and a shoulder to cry on........Domestic abuse is a bad problem here and else where.......Women are dying every day at the hands of someone that claims to love them........There are so many forms of abuse, besides physical, there is mental and emotional abuse........I knew that he was mentally abusive but didn't realize he was willing to go to this extreme....She is in a safe place right now but for how long we will not know until he is captured......There are innocent children involved.......